Christmas 2022 (Image by Dennis J. Wall)
This is a Christmas story that came about this way. There is nothing spectacular about it. But it does involve miracles.
This story began when my doctor gave me a prescription for a blood test. I went to a lab which shall remain nameless. Quest.
My appointment was just after 6:30 in the morning. On a Friday in December. It was cold outside.
Inside it was even more difficult. I brought my printed EMail with my QR Code. I showed it to the machine which is the only way to sign in for your appointment at the lab in December, 2022, which is true I think of every day and not just when your appointment is close to 6:30 in the morning.
The machine did not take it. It rejected me and my appointment. Three times.
A young woman who had just signed in for her own appointment asked me if I was having trouble signing in. That was a smart question to ask. If she had asked me, a man who has lived through many things across many years, if I needed her help I might have done the masculine thing and gruffly barked a "No, thanks."
As it was, she may have had some experience with old cranks in her life, perhaps a grandpa or two. She asked me if I was having trouble. I was able to reply to that question without being defensive, but I would not contradict anyone who heard my voice dripping with frustration at that point, "Yes, I am."
She tried herself. Twice. (By the way, it has since occurred to me that she was there for a lab test herself. She did not just show up at the lab that morning. She had a prescription from her doctor for some kind of test herself.)
Then an employee appeared, ready to usher in the next appointment. She noticed the young woman trying to check me in and asked if she could help. The first young woman replied to the second young woman with a short narrative of what had happened. The employee did a brilliant workaround and when I did not even notice it, she signed me in as a walk-in appointment on a not-very-busy morning or hour of the day.
I got my blood test. It was all over before 7:00 A.M. The results have already been delivered to my doctor. My appointment was successful, through no fault of my own. But that is not the reason I am writing this story.
The first young woman has red hair and a fair complexion. The second young woman has black hair and a dark complexion; I guessed that she or her family came to this country from India at some point. That is what I think of, when I think of American exceptionalism: Everyone is welcome here. Everyone belongs. Here there are no artificial differences built around obstacles of the mind like gender or youth. Not here, not in the United States of America we truly live in.
That may not strike you as a Christmas story, but it is a miracle to me and to me, Christmas is a miracle. Besides, the things I have told you happened at Christmastime.
Think of this as well. This may be more of a story we would expect for Christmas, a story with the flavor of Christmas in it. The first young woman did not have to say or do anything. But she saw another person in trouble and she offered to help. (It so happened that this time I was the other person in trouble who could use some help.) She stared down any risk of rejection she may have felt. She reached out. And she reached out in a way that shows she knows very well how to deal with people, especially strangers like I was to her. As a result, I am eternally grateful.
The second young woman may have offered her help as part of her job, and probably did. But there was more in her actions than just her job. There was the same character at work that is so clearly alive in the first young woman as well.
So there you have it, a Christmas story on Christmas Eve. But this story is not unique to one day a year at 6:30 A.M. on a Friday morning in December at a lab. This is a Christmas story that happens every day in every place at all hours. There are more stories of this kind than there are of the depressing kind, but it seems like depressing stories are mostly what we are told by media and so they are the ones we hear and see most of the time. But those stories are not the way we really live.
We all have stories for Christmas and not just on Christmas Eve. Tell your stories. Even if together we do not drown out the naysayers, we will sweeten and soften the air around us. Telling our Christmas stories will help to make gentle the life of this world. So, Merry Christmas to All and, on this Christmas Eve, to All a Good Night!
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